Thursday, December 9, 2010

Truly WTF

My RE blew me off. We had a WTF phone consult scheduled for 3pm. H even left work early so he could be home. We got a call at 3:15 from Dr. D's Assistant saying he was running late. And we waited...and waited...and waited. H started snoring around 4:20 but I was still hopeful....sometimes Dr. D calls later in the evening...sometimes on a Saturday. I chose to give him the benefit of the doubt but I'm still waitin' for that phone call. I am not the type of girl who would ever sit by the phone but that's just what I did. Just another blow to my faith.

So, I'm beyond pissed right now. I'm having H call to reschedule because I will flip my shit. I know he is going to tell us to move on to DE. I just need to hear it and move on...with life, not necessarily treatments. I would like to hear what our options are, though. Maybe this is a sign that I should just stop everything and not even look into other options....we are probably not meant to be parents. But for now, I can only speculate and obsess.


  1. I'm so sorry to hear this. My RE has been VERY late on calling when he is supposed to. It is frustrating because they are wasting mine and my husband's time (since it is usually during working hours.) I can't imagine why he would blow it off altogether. Perhaps there was an emergency? THEY should be the ones to call and reschedule, you guys should have to do that. Don't take this as a sign that you guys shouldn't try anymore though....these RE's get so busy and I'm sure phone calls are last on their "to do" list. When you talk to him, you should definitely tell him you were/are upset though, and then try to let it go.

  2. Sorry, that is B.S.! I'm hoping he calls today with an apology!

  3. that is unbelievably unprofessional and total bullshit. Please don't take that as a sign of ANYthing other than your doctor is an inconsiderate douche. If you were a face to face appointment would he have missed it then too?

    I hope you get a call soon.


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